How are you in relationships? Romans 12:12 says, "Be joyful in hope, patient in affection; faithful in prayer."
The best romantic Christian relationships can be characterized by the above. Instead of being fed up with slight imperfections, we can have joy in hope for growth. Instead of being pushy, we can be patient with our affection as both partners grow. And strikingly important, we can learn to always be faithfully praying with our partners.
That's a beautiful thing, and something I'm learning to do.
"For the entire Law is fulfilled in in this one word: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself."—Gal 5:14